A man has a healthy, loving relationship with his mother – she’s warm, wise, and respected. His new girlfriend was raised by a cold, competitive mother. The girlfriend becomes suspicious of the mother’s kindness, waiting for the "trap." The conflict is the girlfriend’s trauma, not the mother’s behavior.
From a psychological perspective, our first experience with love and attachment is with our mother 1. This sets the stage for future relationships, often acting as a blueprint for how we expect to be treated and how we treat others. Sex Life With My Mother- Fantasy -v1.0- -haruh...
The next time you feel an explosive emotion toward your partner—rage that seems too big for the situation, or a desperate need to please—ask: Is this about him, or is this about my mother? Often, we marry people who have one fatal flaw that mirrors our mother’s worst trait, hoping to "win" this time. Recognize the loop. A man has a healthy, loving relationship with